Friends

Friends are sometimes a big help when they share your feelings.


In the context of decisions, the friends who will serve you best are those who understand your feelings…


— Daniel Kahneman (via fyp-psychology)

Fall in Love

Before you can grow up, you must fall in love 3 times.


Once you must fall in love with your best friend, ruining your friendship forever.


This will teach you who your true friends are, and the fine line between friendship and more.


Once you must fall in love with someone you believe to be perfect.


You must learn that no one is perfect, and that you should never be treated as any less than you deserve.


And once you must fall in love with someone that is exactly like you.


This will teach you about who you are, and who you want to be.


And when you're through with all that, you learn that the people who care about you the most are the ones that you hurt, and the ones that hurt you are the ones that you needed the most.


But most of all, you learn that love is only a concept and is not something that can be defined, it is different to each person that experiences it.


And you will learn to respect each and every person on this earth, knowing that everyone only wants to be loved.

Silence

Sometimes all we need to do is just back off silently and let it go.

Some peoples will not be in our future.

How I wish to have delete button where I can easily delete my feeling.


I feel numb. Feel something breaking inside.


I wish I can go away from here, and start a new life



- Leya, 11:42 A.M

Things About Life I Wish I had Known

1.  Spend time with people you love -- That's your family and best friends. If you don't have a family, create one. Most people in life are only visitors. Family is for life.


2.  Don't start a relationship if you're not in love -- I've done this more than once. You kind of like someone and think : "We might as well give it a shot." Not a good idea. You're either in love or you are not. Don't fool yourself. It's not fair to you and the other person.


3.  Exercise daily -- I didn't get this until recently. A healthy body is where you have to start everything in life. If you can't build a healthy and strong body, what CAN you build in life?


4.  Keep a journal -- No, keeping a journal is not for children. It helps you become a better thinker and writer. "I don't want to be a writer" you might think. Well, how many emails and texts do you send a day? Everybody is a writer.


5.  Pick an industry, NOT a job -- If you want to become good at something, you need to spend years and years doing that. You can't do that if you hop from industry to industry. Pick an industry you love and start at the bottom. You will find the perfect role for you eventually


6.  Money isn't important -- It really isn't. But you have to train yourself not to care about money. Don't become too dependent on the stuff you own -- otherwise the stuff will own you.


7.  Be nice -- I don't mean you should be a pushover. You can be someone that doesn't take shit and be nice about it. Just don't insult people, think you're better than them, or act like an idiot.


8.  Learn every day -- You're got to train your brain to stay alert. You don't have to read book a day to learn every day. Learn from your mistakes. Learn from the people around you -- be open to what they can teach you.


9.  Don't judge -- Just because people make different choices than you, they are not stupid. Also, you don't know everything about people, so don't judge them -- help them.


10.  Never look back too long -- Reflecting on the past is only good for one thing : Learning.



Credited to : Darius Foroux (Things About Life I Wish I had Known)

One day

There will come a day when someone comes into your life and changes everything.


They will raise the standards so high by experiencing new things with you.


They will make you laugh incessantly.


They will travel to great lengths to see you smile.


They will show interest in your hobbies and will make all the necessary time to see you.


They won't stop showing you how much you mean to them for a minute.


And eventually, you will realize that you've met the right one.


After all the heartaches you've been through, you will finally be able to breathe again.


- M Sosa (via SweetzThoughts)