Dedicated to girls

1. Not every girl wants to get married by 23. So before you ASSUME she's of marriageable age, ask her what her views on marriage are. One hint, might save you the drama- just because she does not want to get married now does not mean she never will. She has other plans for herself right now, let her live a little.


2. Just because a girl wishes to do her PhD after Masters does not mean she doesn't want to settle down in life. Give her a break, and respect the fact that she has the confidence to take that up, cos yeah, PhD is no joke. There will come a point when she would happily devote herself to her family, and balance it out with her work life. Her degrees, or lack of them, won't make any difference. Let her study while she wants to, okay?


3. Just because she is 27 and unmarried does not mean she's been rejected by many men. Maybe, being single is a choice she has made.


4. Having a boyfriend does not make her characterless.


5. Just because she has recently gone through a break up doesn't mean she is vulnerable and available.


6. Just because most of her friends are boys, does not mean she is "having a good time" with all of them.


7. Just because she has a drink in her hand does not mean she is an alcoholic.


8. Just because she wore a short skirt to one party does not mean she dresses up that way every day.


9. Just because she is ambitious doesn't mean she isn't a family person.


10. Just because she doesn't discuss her plans doesn't mean she's clueless about life. Give her a chance, alright?


11. Just because she is outspoken doesn't mean she is a rebel.


12. Just because she comes home late from work does not mean she is sleeping around with her colleagues.


13. After a hectic week, give her some time to relax over the weekend. Don't make that one weekend party make her look like a she's a frivolous party-girl without a job.


14. Just because she is out shopping alone does not mean she is depressed or lonely. It's how she relaxes, respect that.


15. Just because she is on a holiday alone does not mean she doesn't have company. Maybe it's a break to get back her lost confidence, or maybe that's how she is. Admire her spirit instead of giving her advice, okay?


16. Just because she is a woman doesn't mean she can't kick ass in military school.


17. Just because she has a tattoo doesn't mean she is attention seeking. Maybe that's her way of expression.


18. Just because she doesn't know how to cook doesn't mean she won't make a good wife. Remember when you were just married and cooked chicken curry which was um, a disaster?


19. Just because she likes everything pink and shiny and fluffy doesn't mean she lives in her own world. She can handle some situations much better than her male counterparts.


20. Just because she is pretty does not mean she is a whore. And just because she is friendly does not mean she is flirting with you.


Yes, we cry, we are emotional; we take things personally, and sometimes over-react to situations. But this does not give any one the right to judge us in the wrong way. Times are changing; don't confine her within those boundaries, no matter how orthodox you are. There are some who might be fighting this losing battle, yet compromising on their decisions and plans, just to please society. Respect n do share...

Credit to Womansera

Orang perempuan

Orang perempuan,

Kalau bergaduh dengan orang dia sayang, semua kerja tak jadi.

Badmood seharian. Menangis la. Rasa nak demam la. Rasa sakit kepala la.

Macam-macam perkara negatif la. Semua benda yang dia nak buat semua tak jadi...

Orang perempuan tak suka kena marah.

Tak suka orang garang-garang dengan dia. Tak suka kena tengking.

Tak suka diabaikan. Orang perempuan sangat suka bila ada orang ambil berat tentang dia.

Orang perempuan susah nak dengar cakap,

alau orang nasihat dia sindir-sindir atau tegur kasar-kasar dengan dia.

Bagi dia, cukup cakap baik-baik. Kalau dengan cara itu, in shaa Allah dia mudah terima.

Dan.. orang perempuan sangat suka dipujuk bila dia merajuk!


By : Ustaz Zaid Abdul

Mak and Me

Loyalty

When you have a good friend that really cares for you and tries to stick in there with you, 


you treat them like nothing. 


Learn to be a good friend because one day you're gonna look up and say I lost a good friend. 


Learn how to be respectful to your friends, don't just start arguments with them,


And don't tell them the reason, always remember your friends will be there quicker than your family.


Learn to remember you got great friends, don't forget that


And they will always care for you no matter what. 


Always remember to smile and look up at what you got in life.” 

Choices

Choose me or lose me?

I wish I could have so much strength to speak this.

Choose me if you love me.

Or you might lose me by pushing me away.

Why things become so complicated?

I won't asked much and I know you know what I want.

So frustrated when things turn to this way.

Is it happened due to my mistake? Or I might too attached?

Too clingy?

Choose me or lose me? Think deeply.

Bila hati berbicara

Hai, lama xmenconteng di muka blog ni. 

Cewahhh. Haiihhhh. Tu dia lawak haihh. Awai²dah mengeluh. Tu lah bukan nak kata la. 

Apa yang jadi ni, kadang-kadang kita tak tau apa yang Allah dah susunkan. Tak. Aku tak salahkan Allah. Aku tak salahkan sapa². Aku mmg patut salahkan diri aku.

Aku kdang² rasa betul ka dak keputusan aku balik mai utara. Adakah aku salah langkah? Kadang ntah la. Aku suka buat kputusan trburu². Ya. Allah barangkali nak uji aku. Adakah aku mudah terleka? Pedihnya hati ini.....

Aku perlu tetapkan hati. Jahatkah aku. Kejamkah aku. Ntah aku xtahu. Yang pasti nya aku perlu cri jalan keluar dr kemelutan ini. Haihhhh

Am I too clingy?

How. 

How should I do in order to meet this kind of person?

Recently too much hurt, too much heartbroken need to take care off.

I am so frightened. Of love now. How it makes me scared of love?

Am I too attached or too clingy?

For God sake, I am just want to be loved, just need a bit of attention.

Is it hard for you?

Seriously I'm so disappointed of you. The only thing that I can do is just to put my smile face in front of you.

Too many sorry you might said to me, but you didn't realized there are too many scar at my heart when you are too harsh to me. With your words.

Bad Habit

I have this bad habit of getting close to people
And thinking that their always to be by my side: but eventually they always leave.


I have this bad habit of loving people a little too much,
When they don't even love me back; and when they leave me my heart feels like someone threw it from the sky.



I have this bad habit of caring for people,
When they don't even care about me at all. Perhaps, if they saw through my eyes they'll see the scars I have deep down inside.



I'm tired. I'm tired. I'm tired.
I wish feeling didn't exist.


Why do feelings exist anyways?
I always fall for everything and let it destroy me.


It's my fault after all, but I still have hope that one day I find a person that shares the same bad habits as me.


Credit to : A.E

Pathetic Me

Yes I am.


I am so pathetic one. I was hoping so much. Was expecting too much from him.


Until I was felt broken. Disappointed. How time flies so fast.


He changed a lot. Too much changes that even myself can't handle.


I am so frustrated. Am I stepping into wrong relationship?


I am not asking too much. Just asking being himself. Like before and be with me.


Am my request too much? I wanted to be his favorite place whenever has has bad or good day.


Is it too much for him to do so? Or because I am too attached to him?


It's too unbearable indeed. I want to forget all this. But how?


It's so hurt. Even I am not his lover

Mood bercuti

Yes. Mood cuti dah mai dah. Oh yeah.

Where to go lor? Tak boleh pi jauh-jauh sebab ringgit tak elok. Pffft hahaha.

Gaji nak p Cameron Highlands la. Haihhh. Nak relaks kan minda. Dah penat dah. Letih. Sedih. Kecewa. Haihhh!!!!

Kejamnya. Tak pernah rasa macam ni. Hmmm. Xpala nak buat camna. Sabar Leya. Hang harus sabar. Hmmm

Lost

My head. Hurt. My heart was shattered. Broken into pieces. Its out of control now.

Darkness. Its seem going to after me. The more I run from it, the more closer its came. Sorround me with a dark world. Make me complete broken.

Where am I now? Where were you when I need you most? I am lost.

Lost into the darkness. I can't see any light. To light up my way out. I am lost.

I am completely lost. I can't find my way out. What gonna happen to me now? Is that my destiny? To be in the darkness? I am lost.

I am tired. So tired. Is it my place to be in the darkness, so that I can give up the light and give to other? If yes, then i rather to be lost. I will happy for that. If this way can make people happy instead. I will do.

Unbearable Emotion

I am weak.

So weak, even I can't handle my own emotion

Till when? Till when I need to be like this

Its just so hurt. So fucking hurt.

Why must this happened? At me?

Unbearable emotion.

Its so much swirling inside me. Damn

Life is full of shitty

Yeah. Indeed.

Sometimes I am getting sick.

Sick of the people who simply doing shitty on me. Haihh

Really want some pleasure moment for myself.

Need to take a break.

I Miss You but....

I miss you when something really good happens, because you are the one I want to share it with.

I miss you when something is troubling me, because you the one who understands me so well.

I miss you when I laugh and cry, because I know that you are the one that makes my laughter grow and my tears disappear.

I miss you all the time, but I miss you most when I lay awake at night and think of all the wonderful we spent with each other ; for those were some of the best times of my life. ~Credit to Poems Porn~

But all this going to be my past. Until when I need to hold and cherish this moment if you are not cared of me. Anymore. Its really hurt me now. F*cking hurt so much. 

Game On!

Time flies so fast.

People changes. A lot I can say

No more old memories which we cherish a lot

You wanna play the game? Then let's play the game

You the one started the game, I will follow and will end it soon

Kinda sad when all this happen.

Keep in mind. Not all girl just follow your act

Some of it will put revenge, slowly stabbed into your heart.

I don't believe in Karma, but I rather be Karma itself.

Life is full of suprise

I never thought.

Never thought, from someone become your lover previously still can be your friend.

Why I am saying that?

Yeah. He came back to me. My ex.

We was broke up before this. 

He came to me, and give some motivation to me.

Seriously. I never thought about that.

Your ex love became your friend now.

How ironic the life is?

Weird indeed. Isn't?

Medicine of heart

I need a shot.

What shot?

Shot of medicine

What medicine?

Medicine of forgetting.

Forgetting? Forget of what?

To forget someone. Someone I love and still love till now.

Hmmmm..?

How i wish.

Wish for?

Wish to undone for everything.

*heartbroken*

Love vs Friendship

Which one is you?

Me?

Love friendship.

Yes. I love. In love with my friendship.

Deal with it. 

*Smiling face*

Learn to forget

Yeah. Indeed. Its too hard for me.

So much. Its so hurting me. A lot indeed.

But what I am supposed to do. I am just a stupid girl who trying to hold. The precious moment, so that its will stay forever with me.

Why? I am keeping asking the same damn question to myself. Why? Why Leya? Why you let this thing happened?

I am getting tired. Is it the time now, Leya?

I am asking again. That question. Am I ready to say that?

Say what?

"Enough is enough, Leya"

Breakdown. Mental breakdown.

Pain, pain....

Please. Please go away.

Upset Feeling ~~~ Go go away

I'm upset. But then, I am still smiling like nothing happened to me.

Keep smiling, Leya

And stay strong. You will find your own happiness if you keep patient.

You not an asshole. Hahaha!